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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 06:53

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

Can it be true that people know your name, not your story, they’ve heard what you’ve done, but not what you’ve been through, so take their opinions of you with a grain of salt?

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

And i lived it daily.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

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I don,t even have a pension.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

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I was seconnd youngest,

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

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I was very sick at this time too.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

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And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

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But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

When she asked me how she looked .

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

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You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

My boyfriend has a major problem/addiction with watching porn, nude/sex scenes on movies and shows, watching hot young girls on tiktok, Instagram, Twitter, and onlyfans. He hides it and lies about it. Should I be concerned with him cheating? What do?

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

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I was scared of men, in general

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

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With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

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I waited trembling.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

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Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

It was going to be , some day.

She wouldn,t have been !

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

He resisted the act ,that day.

I said to her

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I write beautiful poetry .

But ive been too sick for many years..

But it wasn’t much.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

She found it foreign!.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

I know ,a lot about trauma.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

So, i spoilt her more .

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

My family never makes their pension either.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

(And it was in our own minds.)

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

Who then, do I blame.?

He knew the spot.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Ive learnt so much.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

I think the readers, may guess!

One cannot live in the past .

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

We were not on the streets..

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

So whats the point in blame.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

They are buried together, in the same grave..

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

She loved him until the end.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

But, we were locked up after school.

I have no regrets .

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I couldn’t, believe it.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

Especially a lifetime of it.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Put me off passion for life!!

On the 31st of Jan this month .

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

All the time i was locked up.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

Im dying but, im not bitter.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

We all went to grammer schools

What did i know ?

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

I had hoped to write a book about this .

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Would this be the day?

I was 9 years of age.

Comes on , in middle age.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Why did i forgive my father ?

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I never cut or harmed myself..

I will be 64.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

She married twice! .

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

As i do to all so called friends.?

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

This is soul school!.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

I could never make a relationship work though!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

And who doesn’t know suffering?

Was to survive, this bastard.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

She was in good health!

I did it because my mum asked me too!

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

My life is so biszare .

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Im still living with it.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.